LovelyLadyLux wrote:And speaking of Bill H where is he? Haven't seen him for a while.
Not that I've ever done this!

but has anybody ever TRIED to focus their mind onto something to make it happen?
Here's something to try...
Focus your mind on NOTHING !
It is very hard, something always pops into your mind, but with practice and the right environment for you, it can be done..
It may be that you listen to some music that you really like, or watch the flame of a candle.
When I was a kid, I stared at the setting sun while in my cot.. Now that was a wonderful experience for me, and I was only 2 at the time...
Of course, I didn't have too many human pre-conceptions then, so it happened quite quickly, less than a couple of minutes...
If I really want something, then spend about 15 to 20 minutes focused on your desire. Do NOT during the process contemplate HOW it will come to you, just trust that it will. once you have done that then drop the thought.
In the Tree by the Brook, there's a song bird who sings, Sometimes ALL of our thoughts are misgiven..