When I was working as a paid consultant I came with/come with the equivalent of 13 letters behind my name, Summa Cum Laud's, experience and proven track record so it is relatively difficult not to take what I say seriously.
And - in every way I'm trying to put this delicately - I'm really white and was in a really black third world. I was there at a time when 'white' was being very much deferred to. I could have been stupid as a stick and I think the ideas I shared would have been taken seriously. It often felt very uncomfortable for me to have this experience of being deferred to. "I" wanted "us" to sit as equals but that didn't always happen. I recognize my own personality is extremely strong and it can be difficult to challenge me when I get on a roll but ........Long story
Anyway - I wasn't really thinking at all about the non-gossiping sisters when I made the post. I was thinking more about all the regular ordinary Egyptian people living in the villages, working their butts off for $1/day, 5,6,7,8,9 of them sharing 1 cup and eating dinner off a cardboard on the ground table and seeing and having to live amongst Expats moving in acting like they own the place and making demands left right and centre.
I'm talking about those Expats who were not making it in their own world but on coming to Egypt suddenly found themselves able to stretch their $$ to a level where they were living very well and hiring Egyptians to do day labour for them. I'm talking about all those Expats whose heads swole up to the almost breaking point with their own perceived importance. Those Expats who started to demand (ahem) Committees. Somehow they had enough sway, pull, whatever to command meetings but I definitely hope (and actually have enough insight to know) they were not taken seriously by the REAL powers that be.
My wonder is how regular, normal, man on the street Egyptians viewed these possibly perceived perks of Expats having a voice though? If I saw my gov't sitting down with this group or that group and not me I'd be extremely irate!
Always going to be difficult when 1 group or another starts to push their own agenda. When we push ours we see it as being our right to do so. When another groups pushes theirs then we get upset but we often don't look at ourselves in reverse.